Marriage Counseling
My passion is helping couples to be unified and transition from one part of their life to the next in a purposeful manner. I strive to provide a safe space of fairness, trust, and growth for couples during each phase of their healing.
The goal is unity, both perspectives appreciated, and a deep and joyful connection that sustains for a lifetime.
In marriage counseling, I create an atmosphere of safety so both individuals can be heard and understood. I guide couples in developing realistic expectations and uncovering the individual work necessary for a joyful and enduring relationship.
During our sessions, we will focus on these four pillars
Conflict Resolution: Developing strategies and techniques for resolving conflicts peacefully and productively. This involves listening to understand, compromise, and speaking with respect.
Identifying Patterns: Recognizing and addressing harmful communication patterns and behaviors — such as criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, or contempt (as described in Dr. John Gottman’s research on the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.”
Emotional Regulation: Effective communication often involves managing emotions. This practice involves methods to regulate emotions and understanding how to express ourselves in a way that doesn’t escalate conflict.
Improving Connection: Rebuilding emotional intimacy and connection in a relationship. This involves activities and exercises designed to foster closeness and bonding.